Wow it’s been 9 weeks since the birth, how fast time flies. On the whole it went well, I had a c-section with partial anesthesia and not like the first birth with a general anesthesia, I noticed the difference immediately, with Shayu I was on the same day on my feet without problems, but this time I needed almost 1.5 days until I could walk again. But the birth itself was nicer this time, because I was awake and noticed everything. 

I could go home after 4 days, at home my mother was there for 2 weeks, which was the best decision. I only had to take care of the little one while she did everything else. The difference I noticed, I went hiking after 4 weeks postpartum and had the little one (all day) in the carrier and had no pain, our traditions have something about them.

The little one is completely breastfed, she comes about every 3h. After 2.5 weeks she started to sleep 4-5 hours through the night, at night she sleeps in her bed which was important for me and during the day in the cradle from moonboon.

After the 31st with Ayar my mom left again and I was on my own. The challenge was that in my first week alone he had still school vacations. With a few ups and downs it went good. I was most afraid of this (the ups and downs), with Shayan I could always spontaneously go to my parents, sister and relatives which is not possible now, because Shayu has school. The baby blues I felt this time, I just could not cope with the whole situation, just being at home without social contact (in persona) as my sisters and friends worked and only have weekends time, the little one who does not like to sit in the Maxi Cost, but my son must be chauffeured around a lot for his hobbies. It is a big adjustment with all the organization, but I try my best.

It all just takes its time, for me who everything had to be done immediately it was a big challenge, I learned to take everything a little easier and be a little more flexible. Since 2 weeks it goes really better and we have our routines.

After the okey from my gynecologist (after the follow-up) I started with fitness, I try to go at least 2 times a week (at night when my husband is at home), which sometimes works and sometimes not. Since last week I’ve been going to badminton with a few other mommies. My body has created a little miracle and also needs its time, the most important thing is that I have 2 healthy and happy kids 

Wish you a good start to the week

With Love Sinthuya